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		<title>By: Deaf Pixie</title>
		<link>http://www.mishkazena.com/2009/03/23/a-deaf-mom-and-two-kids-killed-near-gallaudet/comment-page-1/#comment-10515</link>
		<dc:creator>Deaf Pixie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 01:59:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A hard of hearing parent,

 You should try to talk with Domestic Violence about Austine School The Deaf  student need to training to stop bullying each other deaf or your daughter. 
  Long time ago I had similar bullying from Salem Oregon. I complete understood your frustration about being not helpful with your daughter. I think you need to contact lawyer to resolved issues at Austine, before lawsuit is pretty very serious issues and report to newspaper. Something it need stop violence or bullying are consideration crime. 
I am not quiet sure if it is worth try?  
 I hope MZ helping you out!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A hard of hearing parent,</p>
<p> You should try to talk with Domestic Violence about Austine School The Deaf  student need to training to stop bullying each other deaf or your daughter.<br />
  Long time ago I had similar bullying from Salem Oregon. I complete understood your frustration about being not helpful with your daughter. I think you need to contact lawyer to resolved issues at Austine, before lawsuit is pretty very serious issues and report to newspaper. Something it need stop violence or bullying are consideration crime.<br />
I am not quiet sure if it is worth try?<br />
 I hope MZ helping you out!</p>
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		<title>By: Mishka Zena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mishka Zena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 02:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, hard of hearing mom. I am sorry to hear about the problems with the Deaf peers. 

I dont know about nowadays but few years ago, MSSD had a program with the local private school so the top performing students would attend. MSSD had a high expectation of its students back then. You can call and inquire if they still provide this program.

I am not so sure about the status of the social climate at MSSD, though. Let me ask a friend whose sibling graduated from MSSD recently and I&#039;ll get back to you on that aspect.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, hard of hearing mom. I am sorry to hear about the problems with the Deaf peers. </p>
<p>I dont know about nowadays but few years ago, MSSD had a program with the local private school so the top performing students would attend. MSSD had a high expectation of its students back then. You can call and inquire if they still provide this program.</p>
<p>I am not so sure about the status of the social climate at MSSD, though. Let me ask a friend whose sibling graduated from MSSD recently and I&#8217;ll get back to you on that aspect.</p>
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		<title>By: A hard of hearing parent.</title>
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		<dc:creator>A hard of hearing parent.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My daughter, soon to be 16, wants to go to to MSSD next year. She is currently at Austine but taking her classes with interpreters at the local public high school. The teachers are good and the academics are challenging. Unfortunately she has a tough social life with subtle bullying from some other deaf kids and being unable to communicate well with the hearing kids. I have heard varying comments about safety concerns at MSSD as well as issues about the social situation. Also I&#039;m worried that her academic life will suffer without her parents around to make sure that the homework gets done right. What about the academic life there. So far, my experience has shown me that deaf schools have  low expectations for their students and not too high standards for the work level of their teachers, both at Austine and ASD.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My daughter, soon to be 16, wants to go to to MSSD next year. She is currently at Austine but taking her classes with interpreters at the local public high school. The teachers are good and the academics are challenging. Unfortunately she has a tough social life with subtle bullying from some other deaf kids and being unable to communicate well with the hearing kids. I have heard varying comments about safety concerns at MSSD as well as issues about the social situation. Also I&#8217;m worried that her academic life will suffer without her parents around to make sure that the homework gets done right. What about the academic life there. So far, my experience has shown me that deaf schools have  low expectations for their students and not too high standards for the work level of their teachers, both at Austine and ASD.</p>
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		<title>By: RLM</title>
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		<dc:creator>RLM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 18:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all, I want to thank you, MZ and other deaf and hearing individuals to raise the awareness of domestic violence against deaf individuals so far. 

 I completely understand what Robert Alfred Hawkins meant by the systematic exclusiveness of deaf minority groups like deaf African Americans and Latinos and other ethnic and linguistic (deaf foreigners) minorities, etc. 

  How true about many organizations of the deaf rarely bother to give any damn about deaf minority groups, especially domestic violence and job counselings. 

  From my own personal experiences and observations of several organizations of the deaf often patronize and underserve the deaf minority groups within DC-Baltimore area. 

  Robert Alfred Hawkins raised good points about how other deaf groups often are overlooked like the deaf sexual minority, etc. 

  For example, I was a victim of domestic violence by former deaf housemate during the Gally years. Those deaf housemates expected me to be the typical gay male like tidying up the place for them, ex. cooking, dishwashing and sweeping and other household tasks all done by myself. I said &quot;Whoa! Why should I do all the household chores, because of my sexual preference??&quot; I simply refused to do their household chores or give the bath to someone&#039;s deaf dog. 

  After several deaf housemates moved out due to the ongoing disputes between another deaf housemate. That remaining deaf housemate and I ended up living at that rental place. 

  The remaining deaf housemate expected me to be totally submissive because of my sexual preference. That deaf housemate himself strictly hetrosexual (straight) demanded that I do dishwashing of the mountain of soiled cooking wares which he recently done his own cooking. I simply told him that was not my own doing. Why should I do his dishwashing? 

  The deaf housemate said that I had to do the dishwashing, because I left the dirty glass in the first place. I drank tap water out of that glass in the early morning. I still don&#039;t see why I have to do the dishwashing of his soiled cooking wares and utensils. He suddenly grabbed my neck and pushed his hand against the side of cheek via jaw. That deaf housemate techincally crooked my nice smile and caused the lifetime problems of TMJ (bruxism). 

 Guess what? The deaf housemate decided to teach me the lesson by calling the police on me. I really don&#039;t know what he told the police about me. 

  The police officers showed up at the residence and noticed how odd for me being the perperator (bully) due to physical sizes. That deaf housemate was much bulker and bigger and taller than me. The deaf housemate told the police to arrest me for something I have not done anything unlawful or criminal. Unbelievable! 

  The very same deaf housemate left me mountain of unpaid utility bills which he called those companies to change the person responsible for billing purposes. 

  I left with credit history damage because of this deaf housemate. 

  How twisted mind of that deaf housemate demanded to see my private gential which he did walk around naked from time to time after married to someone female. I refused to give him any personal satisfication for physically abusing me and other things. Jeez! 

  I could understand what other victims of domestic violence could go through. Althought, I am a strong-willed and physically feasible person myself, but anyone could fall to the realms of domestic violence. 

Robert L. Mason (RLM)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, I want to thank you, MZ and other deaf and hearing individuals to raise the awareness of domestic violence against deaf individuals so far. </p>
<p> I completely understand what Robert Alfred Hawkins meant by the systematic exclusiveness of deaf minority groups like deaf African Americans and Latinos and other ethnic and linguistic (deaf foreigners) minorities, etc. </p>
<p>  How true about many organizations of the deaf rarely bother to give any damn about deaf minority groups, especially domestic violence and job counselings. </p>
<p>  From my own personal experiences and observations of several organizations of the deaf often patronize and underserve the deaf minority groups within DC-Baltimore area. </p>
<p>  Robert Alfred Hawkins raised good points about how other deaf groups often are overlooked like the deaf sexual minority, etc. </p>
<p>  For example, I was a victim of domestic violence by former deaf housemate during the Gally years. Those deaf housemates expected me to be the typical gay male like tidying up the place for them, ex. cooking, dishwashing and sweeping and other household tasks all done by myself. I said &#8220;Whoa! Why should I do all the household chores, because of my sexual preference??&#8221; I simply refused to do their household chores or give the bath to someone&#8217;s deaf dog. </p>
<p>  After several deaf housemates moved out due to the ongoing disputes between another deaf housemate. That remaining deaf housemate and I ended up living at that rental place. </p>
<p>  The remaining deaf housemate expected me to be totally submissive because of my sexual preference. That deaf housemate himself strictly hetrosexual (straight) demanded that I do dishwashing of the mountain of soiled cooking wares which he recently done his own cooking. I simply told him that was not my own doing. Why should I do his dishwashing? </p>
<p>  The deaf housemate said that I had to do the dishwashing, because I left the dirty glass in the first place. I drank tap water out of that glass in the early morning. I still don&#8217;t see why I have to do the dishwashing of his soiled cooking wares and utensils. He suddenly grabbed my neck and pushed his hand against the side of cheek via jaw. That deaf housemate techincally crooked my nice smile and caused the lifetime problems of TMJ (bruxism). </p>
<p> Guess what? The deaf housemate decided to teach me the lesson by calling the police on me. I really don&#8217;t know what he told the police about me. </p>
<p>  The police officers showed up at the residence and noticed how odd for me being the perperator (bully) due to physical sizes. That deaf housemate was much bulker and bigger and taller than me. The deaf housemate told the police to arrest me for something I have not done anything unlawful or criminal. Unbelievable! </p>
<p>  The very same deaf housemate left me mountain of unpaid utility bills which he called those companies to change the person responsible for billing purposes. </p>
<p>  I left with credit history damage because of this deaf housemate. </p>
<p>  How twisted mind of that deaf housemate demanded to see my private gential which he did walk around naked from time to time after married to someone female. I refused to give him any personal satisfication for physically abusing me and other things. Jeez! </p>
<p>  I could understand what other victims of domestic violence could go through. Althought, I am a strong-willed and physically feasible person myself, but anyone could fall to the realms of domestic violence. </p>
<p>Robert L. Mason (RLM)<br />
RLMDEAF blog</p>
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		<title>By: CyanSquirrel</title>
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		<dc:creator>CyanSquirrel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Mar 2009 14:48:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I didn&#039;t know the victims, and I pray for comfort for kin and friends of the victims. One thing bothers me big time about the whole thing: WHY kill the children? They are innocent and not involved with whatever beef you may have with your significant other. I cannot wrap my brain around that. 

Far too often nowadays, the children are killed in a domestic violence situation. It breaks my heart.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I didn&#8217;t know the victims, and I pray for comfort for kin and friends of the victims. One thing bothers me big time about the whole thing: WHY kill the children? They are innocent and not involved with whatever beef you may have with your significant other. I cannot wrap my brain around that. </p>
<p>Far too often nowadays, the children are killed in a domestic violence situation. It breaks my heart.</p>
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		<title>By: Diane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 20:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert  -- you are right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert  &#8212; you are right.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert Alfred Hawkins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robert Alfred Hawkins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 19:52:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, that&#039;s a clear example of the plight you mentioned about. 

What also needs to be looked at are males who are affected by DV. There are lots of males, regardless of sexual orientation, affected by DV initiated by their spouses, partners or girlfriends/boyfriends. 

Applied equality in agency programming will bring about credibility to any agency charged with addressing issues of domestic violence.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, that&#8217;s a clear example of the plight you mentioned about. </p>
<p>What also needs to be looked at are males who are affected by DV. There are lots of males, regardless of sexual orientation, affected by DV initiated by their spouses, partners or girlfriends/boyfriends. </p>
<p>Applied equality in agency programming will bring about credibility to any agency charged with addressing issues of domestic violence.</p>
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		<title>By: Deaf Pixie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deaf Pixie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 19:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Diane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:52:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So sad Erica Peters and her kids&#039; life cut short in the hand of her common law husband.  My heart goes out to her family and friends.    It is very important to many of us to be aware of the Domestic Violence -- especially in the Deaf Community. It is hard to get away from the abusers because it is a small community.  We need to be educated and protected ourselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So sad Erica Peters and her kids&#8217; life cut short in the hand of her common law husband.  My heart goes out to her family and friends.    It is very important to many of us to be aware of the Domestic Violence &#8212; especially in the Deaf Community. It is hard to get away from the abusers because it is a small community.  We need to be educated and protected ourselves.</p>
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		<title>By: Mishka Zena</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mishka Zena</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 18:37:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Robert, I am sorry to hear this as I wasn&#039;t aware of this. A DV advocate informed me of a paper on this, which describes the plight http://www.deaf-hope.org/videos/domestic_violence2.pdf. 

Robert, thank you so much for bringing this up as we all can be educated regarding the lack of services for the Deaf minority groups.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert, I am sorry to hear this as I wasn&#8217;t aware of this. A DV advocate informed me of a paper on this, which describes the plight <a href="http://www.deaf-hope.org/videos/domestic_violence2.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.deaf-hope.org/videos/domestic_violence2.pdf</a>. </p>
<p>Robert, thank you so much for bringing this up as we all can be educated regarding the lack of services for the Deaf minority groups.</p>
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